Suppose you're a well-off professional and happen to be single. Where else would you live to get a combination of the culture, arts, theater and restaurants with possibilities to date other similarly minded professional women? Asking for a friend, lol.
I've done the research and some data points to small/medium cities with a higher % of single women, ie. Rochester and Pittsburgh (also very affordable!) as good dating markets, the reality of living in such a place as I did last year left a lot to be desired. Guys like me don't thrive in the rust belt or blue collar towns. I also know I would hate Florida, lol.
This last year I foreited a high 6 figure income to get a lower one in NYC. So far I've enjoyed it and seem to be finding plenty of dating opportunities with women I actually like for their ambition and energy. I've been blessed to live in a low cost area with a high income for many years - but at some point the financial returns cant outrun an unsatisfying personal and social life. I took the gamble and ran back to the city, Mamdani be damned.
Many people would be happy in Atlanta, DC, Dallas/Ft Worth, or Ft Lauderdale. Highly person dependent! As a neurotic/Seinfeld/Curb guy in a cerebral field, you'll not find a more fitting city than Gotham.