Interesting thread, although it is always difficult to compare between different family situations and cities/countries
Here are our expenses
2 adults, 3 kids ages 7-15 and the dog
Living in Switzerland, near Geneva
We are, I think, relatively spendthift compared to many of our friends. However for the big ticket items (nice house with garden, healthcare) we spend what is needed, but otherwise we are very careful about our expenses (eg. clothing, car, phone, dining out, vacations).
Over the last decade and until last year (when I quit work to start a new business), we were managing to save about 50-60% of our combined income.
Mortgage $3'000
Utilities (electricity, water) $2'000
Heating $2'400
Phone, internet, tv $1'200
Medical insurance $9'200
Medical and dental bills $2'400 (we have high $2'500 deductibles)
Kids activities $2'000
Vacation $4'800
Vehicles $2'400 (car + motorcycle, incl. depreciation)
Groceries $10'000
Clothing $1'800
House maintenance $4'800
Other insurance $600
Gifts, dining out $2'400
Other $2'400
Total (without income taxes) $46'600 (although I suspect it is more like $50'000)
Regarding our kids education, we are lucky because local university fees are publicly funded and still very low ($1'000/year) so there is no need to save for that purpose.
Cheers,
Rich379